Why use a strap on?
Strap on dildos are sex toys to use for both men and women. They are designed for couples who are daring to try something new, and those willing to experiment with different ways to keep their sex life healthy and exciting.
- Straps on dildos are a great option for those who want to have their hands free during sex. Strap ons free your hands up so you can use them in other ways.
- Strap on dildos allow you to use your hips which gives you greater thrusting power and increased pleasure.
- Strap ons give women the opportunity to act out being a man. She is able to thrust her hips the way men do during intercourse.
- Strap ons give men a chance at playing with two erections at the same time. Some men like to use strap ons that are bigger or smaller or the same size as their own penis.
- For men who have problems sustaining an erection, they are able to use strap ons to compensate. He can start using his own penis and if the erection.
- Strap ons allow for creative sex and experimentation. Strap ons allow women to dress up and pretend to be a man. For some couples this can be a thrilling experience for women to be able to give their man anal penetration. This can be a unique experience and a visually pleasing one at that.
- Straps ons not only open up new avenues in the bedroom, but they can also strengthen relationships as couples get to experiment and try different ways of pleasing each other. Trying strap ons can then lead to experimentation in other ways and encourages couples to be open about their sex life and talk about what they enjoy.
Why men like anal penetration
Unfortunately the stigma associated with anal sex is that it is for gay people. This could not be further from the truth as both gay and heterosexual men enjoy anal penetration. Some gay men do not even enjoy being the reciprocant of anal intercourse. This is why strap-ons are very popular with heterosexual couples as it allows the man to receive anal penetration from his partner.
Many men like to have their anuses massaged, fingered and penetrated.
If you’re interested in strap-on sex talk to your partner about how you would like to go about it. Do you want to incorporate it into other fantasies that you might have? Some people like to use strap ons and act out particular scenes.
Other facts about strap on dildos
- Some women like to wear strap on dildos under their clothing as the strap-on provides discreet clitoral stimulation.
- Strap-ons can come in different colours, its up to persona preference to choose which one you like.
- Most strap-ons come in a one size fits all, however there are some strap-ons that have adjustable straps perfect for those extra large or small people who need to adjust the straps.
- Strap-on dildos are made in different materials to cater for different tastes. Some are completely hard whereas other types can be softer and more flexible. The jelly types are the model which allow for the greatest amount of flexibility.
- There are curved and completely straight dildos. The curved types provide more variety.
How to maximize strap on enjoyment
It may take some time getting used to wearing a harness, so take your time with the new toy.
- Always use plenty of lube. This will make insertion much much easier, especially if you are using the strap on for anal enjoyment.
- Once you are wearing the strap-on, don’t start thrusting straight away. Let your partner get used to the feeling of having the strap on inserted, and then work your way up to the thrusting. This is particularly important if you are using the strap on for double penetration purposes.
- Doggie style is a good position to use with strap ons if you are going for anal penetration.
- Some couples like to explore oral use of the strap on dildo. If you have been using the strap on for anal play then make sure it is thoroughly washed before putting it in the mouth.
- If the man is wearing the erection he can alternate using his penis and then the strap on to please his partner.
- When the woman wears the strap on dildo, the front piece of the harness covers the clitoris. This can be stimulating for women as they get to enjoy pressure on the clitoris while using the strap on.
Give them a try!
If you’ve read all this information about strap-on dildos, then you are obviously keen to give them a try. Remember that once you buy the strap on you don’t have to use them every time you have sex, but instead use it whenever you are in the mood to be creative.